All the junk that’s floating around in my head.

The Feminine Mystique November 13, 2008

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I heard this story told by one of our deacons the other day.  Does it bother anyone else, or just me?

 

“My son has two girls he’s considering taking to the winter formal.  One is from Cincinnati, the other is from Tennessee.  The girl from Cincinnati is a missions major…aka she’s just there to find a husband.  The other is an accounting major, but she’s from the south so she doesn’t understand sarcasm; she’s not that bright.  He’s going to take the one from Cincinnati though, because she understands sarcasm and is prettier.”

 

Also, another one of my favorite comments:

 

All we’ve ever wanted for our girls is to find Godly husbands.”

 

And…

 

“I’m willing to pay the extra money to send my daughter to a Christian University and ensure that she finds a Godly husband.”

 

I think we may need to start reconsidering how we’re raising and viewing our daughters.  My inner feminist is being channeled…

 

How can we raise our daughters to overcome a world where the female body is being exploited and the marriage bed defiled, such that they can find their identities in Christ alone?

 

What’s the importance of the father-daughter relationship in the family?  Surely God has a plan behind it.

 

How can we as a church body encourage healthy female image and help develop women that are prepared to be help meets not only for husbands but also for the Kingdom?

 

How can we encourage our children to make Kingdom minded decisions?  How can we help them choose a marriage partner based on what’s best for the Kingdom, instead of who’s the cutie sitting next to me in chapel? 

 

Thoughts please…

 

My China Fortnight October 26, 2008

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For the next two weeks….www.mychinafortnight.blogspot.com.  Check it out.

***Edit:  Sorry, I had left out a “t”  it should work now!****

 

Go vote now. It will make you feel big and strong. October 16, 2008

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It’s getting ugly kids. 

 

I don’t think I’ve weighed in about politics since I’ve kept this blog.  It used to be a frequent theme when I was using livejournal a looong time ago.  For those of you that haven’t known me for long, I will admit something.  In my past I was very dedicated to the Republican Party.  In fact, Alex P. Keaton dedicated.  While most college girls had posters of Jeeter, Arod, and Heath Ledger on their dormitory room wall, I had an autographed framed picture of George W. Bush.

 

But things have changed for me.  I can’t exactly pinpoint what it is, but over the course of the past two years, I’ve fallen out of love with it.  I can’t stand to watch grown adults bicker and name call for hours on television.  It breaks my heart that the votes of politicians are up for grabs to the highest bidder.  I fail to see any real leadership coming out of Washington and I wonder where basic human dignity has run off to.

 

And when I think about voting I wonder if it’s even right for me to vote.  Is it ok for me to presume that I know what’s best for a country of people?  I mean, I do know what’s best; what would be best would be for all people everywhere to give up citizenship to a country, and become citizens of the Kingdom of God.  But since that’s probably not going to happen, let me say that I feel a little like I have to choose to be one or the other; and we all know we can’t love two masters.  What I’m getting at is that I don’t think I can love both God and Country.

 

I think I can love God and appreciate country.  Be thankful to live such a comfortable, opulent life.  Appreciate the freedoms I have here, particularly the freedom I currently have in writing a blog such as this.  Because this would not happen other places.

 

So Gary and I were discussing briefly voting based on principle this past weekend.  And I like that.  But then when I think about the two major candidates I have to choose from my alarm goes off on both.

 

For one, with Obama, how can I vote for someone that was elected to public office to serve a group of people, but one year into a 6 year (I believe) commitment he bails and pursues another office?  There’s just something principally wrong with that in my mind.  I don’t feel like the guy has really “stood” for anything.  And that makes me feel like his vote will always go to the highest bidder.  To whatever is most popular at the time and will gain him the most success or favor at the time.

 

But then we have McCain.  And the signs swirling around him that read “COUNTRY FIRST” make me want to cry.  As much as I kinda do want to vote for him (mostly because of economic policy because Obama’s stance on the capital gains tax scares the living daylights out of me)  I just don’t know if I can.  I can’t believe the number of Christians with signs in their lawns that read “country first.”  No, no, no.  God first.  Remember that please.

 

But I don’t think it’s fair to hold the political arena to my Biblical standards.  Because the country is designed for everyone to be able to believe what they want to believe…not what I think they should be forced to believe.  God gave us all free will.  I don’t think He ever desired for a government to impose His morality on a nation of people.  That’s what we’re here for.  Not to force people to abide by certain rules, but to show people that the nature of God is definitely a great thing.  That if society functioned off of Christ mindedness we’d be in some pretty good shape (I say this as if the church functions this way! Ha!).  And I don’t really think lobbying for certain rules and legislations to be passed is the way to convince people of this.  In fact, I think it ends up being a pretty big turnoff. 

 

So anyway, I don’t know who to vote for.  I can’t decide if it’s legitimate to vote for Jesus buy abstaining from going to the polls.  And is it too presumptuous to even believe that my single vote can really make a difference?  I want to be a good citizen, because I know that Jesus wants me to be.  I pay my taxes…but do I have to go participate in the election of the lesser of two evils?  Can I with good conscience support a man that’s campaign slogan reads “country first?”  Can I with good conscience support a man that appears to be extremely self-focused and seems to lack true conviction about anything?  I don’t know.  I feel morally conflicted over this.  Insights please…

 

What’s in your wallet? October 15, 2008

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Tagged by Kelsey…

 

She wants me to list off all of the things in my purse, so here they are.  And I promise a new blog is in the works of good sustenance. 

 

(I think you’re going to find this list to be boring and practical.  Not unlike myself.)

 

-My work phone and personal phone

-A small spiral bound notebook for writing down all those little ideas that pop into my head at random moments.

-Two pens; one, my fountain pen that my mom bought me for getting good grades in high school, the other a polka dot one I used to use when I worked at Cracker Barrel, both two of my favorite pens.

-A maxi pad.  Well, you know..

-My wallet, filled with credit cards, checkbook, giftcards, my drivers license and cupons.

-Aunt Myra’s Persimmon Pudding recipe

-Camera, just in case

-A small bottle of Tylenol

-Swiss Army Knife (although not that brand)

-A small bottle of Alba lotion

-My FOB to get into work

-My gym member card

-Business cards in a holder

-Gum

-Lancome Vintage Rose lipstick

-A pad of paper for writing down shopping lists

-iPod and earbuds

 

An update on the wedding courtesy of Mr. Brad Paisley… September 18, 2008

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This was playing in my car when I got in it today.  It made me happy.

 

So you say you wanna tie the knot
And you’re askin’ me if I think that the two of you have got
What it takes to make it work
Well one thing’s for sure
All you really need is love (check)

Let me say I’m happy for you both
And here’s a little something that the two of you should know
If you want to do it right
Just take my advice
All you really need is love (check)

And a license and a blood test and a bunch of invitations (check)
A minister (check), a white dress (check), and of course a congregation (check)
And flowers and music and candles (check) and cake
And a bunch of rice for folks to throw as you drive away (check, well bubbles)

Now what’s that expression on your face
You’re lookin’ kind of pale, is everything OK (who, me? Nah…)
Don’t worry you’ll be fine
If you just keep in mind
All you really need is love (check)

And bridesmaids (check) and groomsmen (check) and a wedding coordinator (I have a Kelsey, does that count?)
And food for the reception (check), you’ll need someone to cater (check)
Did I forget to mention it’ll take a couple rings
And of course a P.A. system if you’re wantin’ me to sing (check)

Now you look so happy you could cry
And that explains the tear drops I see wellin’ in your eyes
Don’t worry you’ll be fine
If you just keep in mind
All you really need is love

I’m sure I’m tellin’ you something you already knew
All you really need is love

 

This is My Father’s Word (back on the church hymn kick I promised about two months ago.) September 17, 2008

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Back to posting about church music….

 

This is my Father’s world, and to my listening ears
All nature sings, and round me rings the music of the spheres.
This is my Father’s world: I rest me in the thought
Of rocks and trees, of skies and seas;
His hand the wonders wrought.

This is my Father’s world, the birds their carols raise,
The morning light, the lily white, declare their Maker’s praise.
This is my Father’s world: He shines in all that’s fair;
In the rustling grass I hear Him pass;
He speaks to me everywhere.

This is my Father’s world. O let me ne’er forget
That though the wrong seems oft so strong, God is the ruler yet.
This is my Father’s world: why should my heart be sad?
The Lord is King; let the heavens ring!
God reigns; let the earth be glad!

(Or, as I see more common in hymnals today…

 

This is my Father’s world,
O let me ne’er forget,
That though the wrong seems oft so strong,
God is the ruler yet.
This is my Father’s world:
The battle is not done;
Jesus who died shall be satisfied,
And earth and heav’n be one
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This is my Father’s world, dreaming, I see His face.
I ope my eyes, and in glad surprise cry, “The Lord is in this place.”
This is my Father’s world, from the shining courts above,
The Beloved One, His Only Son,
Came—a pledge of deathless love.

This is my Father’s world, should my heart be ever sad?
The lord is King—let the heavens ring. God reigns—let the earth be glad.
This is my Father’s world. Now closer to Heaven bound,
For dear to God is the earth Christ trod.
No place but is holy ground.

This is my Father’s world. I walk a desert lone.
In a bush ablaze to my wondering gaze God makes His glory known.
This is my Father’s world, a wanderer I may roam
Whate’er my lot, it matters not,
My heart is still at home.

 

 

This is my favorite song in our songbook today.  I’ve lead it for multiple lady’s days and beg Craig to lead it every time he is picking out songs for Sunday mornings.  The verses that I’ve highlighted are the ones that are found in the hymnal we use at church; I am assuming this is much like Sacred Head and has lost several of its verses over the years through editing and the like. 

 

I think a lot of the appeal to me has to do with my love for the idea of knowing that God is ever present.  It’s hard to remember that sometimes.  In her diary Anne Frank writes, “I still believe through all of this that people are good at heart.”  Seeing God in others is hard, but we’re created in His image and beauty can and should be found in us all.  It’s a reminder of Him.

 

Also, God in nature.  In I Kings you’ll find the account of Elijah on the mountain where God is going to present Himself to Elijah.  It says that first a great wind came, but God was not in the wind; then an earthquake, but God was not in the earthquake; then a fire, but God was not in the fire; God was in the whisper.  And the part in the song about “In the rustling grass I hear Him pass” evokes similar emotions for me that I experience when I read the account of Elijah.  Although at times God does present Himself in the bigger things, much of our lives God’s presence is in those small whispers.  And nature reminds us of this as we experience the warm sun smiling on us or the beauty of a calm ocean wave. 

 

And finally, the part of the song that almost always leaves me a little teary eyed is this:  “The battle is not done, Jesus who died shall be satisfied and heaven and earth be one.”

 

Every time I sing this it reminds me that “my food is to do the will of Him who sent me.”  It brings imagery to my mind of a perfect and whole Kingdom, of the complete and perfect worship of God and the deliverance of the oppressed, hungry, and impoverished souls from a world of hatred and sinfulness.  Perfection in the most wonderful sense of the word is brought to mind, and that appeals to my Type A heart.  The absence of sin and darkness and the complete presence and embrace of God.

 

So, I hope you’ve enjoyed reading my reactions to my favorite song.  The end.

 

Don’t mind me; I’m just in the middle of another one of my paradigm shifts. September 9, 2008

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I think the reason my blog is titled “all the junk that’s floating around in my head” is because I feel that’s the way my head works.  It’s a jumbled up mess of a bunch of random thoughts, but on occasion they come together, make connections, and then I type them out and post them here for you to comment on and assure me that I’m still a sane person.  This is one of those days…

 

I was reading an article in a Christian publication this past weekend that was talking about how being similar and identical are two different things.  The author’s argument was that “denominationalism” strives to be similar to the early church, while “the Lord’s true church” is identical to the early church.  And the remainder of the article covered such topics as the use of instrumental music and partaking of the Lord’s Supper too much/not enough.

 

It’s the too much that really struck a cord with me.  Evidently it’s sinful to have communion at weddings and funerals.  I guess we’re not supposed to remember Jesus and proclaim the Lord’s death during those events.  It claimed that weddings are not “worship services.”  Welp, sorry to disappoint because I’m pretty sure the celebration of a new covenant with God has something, in some round about way, to do with worship.  But I could be wrong I suppose.  It cited the part of Acts that talks about the early Christians “coming together on the first day of the week to break bread.”  But fails to mention the earlier part of that book where it’s talking about the believers being dedicated to breaking bread together, praying together, and meeting frequently in one another’s home to do such things. 

 

My next thought is this: why do we want to be like the early church?  Why not just desire to be like Jesus instead?  Peter and Paul had faults like everyone else.  They had their weaknesses and their own issues of shortsightedness.  And my general feel of the New Testament is not that it’s a bunch of rules on how worship service is to be done, but instead a book of encouraging stories to help transform the Christian into a more Christ-like being.  It imparts wisdom and guidance on issues of morality and gives examples of how to and how not to serve God with our lives.  If God wanted us to sum His story up into a listing of a few rules for what we can and can not do in worship I think He would have provided us with a listing of some sort like He did that other time with that Moses guy.  I think by making rules out of a beautiful story we are limiting the power of God, and that my friends, is not something I want to be in the business of doing. 

 

I just keep realizing more and more how much Christianity in the US has become about what happens on Sunday mornings in a church building.  I just don’t think that’s what Christ had in mind.  Particularly since I can recall no stories about Jesus going to Sunday school and then services followed by a potluck in the “multi purpose” room. 

 

I was in an antique shop the other day and saw an old magazine that had a picture of Princess Diana on the front of it.  Which made me think about Mother Theresa.  (I know that might seem like a stretch, but they died the same week, so I always associate those memories.)  And maybe it was because I had just read the aforementioned article but it made me think about her life.  It made me think about how the traditional church of Christ worldview would tell me to say that Mother Theresa was such a good person, but because she’s not like me she’s not a Christian.  But I can say this; I think her life reflected Christ much more than mine does, and much more than most people I know.  She chose something different than this cushy watered-down version of Christianity.  She chose to live out the message, to bless the widows and the orphans.  She didn’t think, “I’ll be blessed because I hunger and thirst for righteousness,” but instead she sought to bless the meek, the poor, the hungry, the oppressed, and the “hopeless.”  She brought to them the hope of Christ.  I need to live my life more that way.  I really, really do.

 

Maybe the first part of this post and the second part don’t seem to go together to you.  But for me, it all is one big coherent thought in my mind.  Just more insight into how Christ following should present itself in my life and how my priorities have been changing and (I think) growing.  I need to blog more.  I’m unloading way too much at one time.

 

Wedding Bliss. Except not at all. August 26, 2008

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An update:

 

I hate wedding planning.  Hate hate hate it.  I don’t want a wedding.  I think it’s stupid that I feel obligated to have one.  I’m out of ideas and I’m out of caring.  I don’t know why Craig and I don’t just elope.  That would be so much easier. 

 

I have to find a florist soon (do I have to?  Has anyone out there done DIY flowers…is it hard?  Is anyone willing to assist me if I choose that route instead?), and someone to make the stupid cake that we’ll spend tons of money on and probably no one will even like.  I’ve never had wedding cake that I thought tasted worthwhile.  And so I contacted someone that bakes cakes and they want a detailed description of what I want it to look like.  Nothing in the title “Product Support Engineer” gives any hint of an idea that I know how to design a wedding cake.  I am not that girl.  So let me throw this out there to my audience for a poll or open suggestion item…how does a dummy cake sound?  We’re having a dessert buffet at the reception…in other words, fruit trays galore and brownies, lemon bars, cake etc.  What if I just get the fancy cake made with only 2 real layers (the top for Craig and I to eat on our 1 year and one other layer for us to cut that night to feed each other with) and the rest just get Styrofoam with fondant or other icing over it.  I found a bakery that does that.  Then we can just order tons of good cake from Sams club and have it pre sliced to cut out all the mess.  And it would be a LOT cheaper.  And with a guest list of over 350 now, I’m looking for ways to cut corners here.  Also, our color is Tiffany Blue and in the ceremony we’re carrying white tulips but at the reception hall I’m going to have centerpieces of multi colored tulips…so if you have ideas for a cake that would work with this theme let me know. 

 

Also, as far as centerpieces go….I’ve found plenty of blue mason jars to use as vases for the tulips at the reception.  Let me get some input from those of you that decorate on a more regular basis than I do…will a mason jar with 6-10 tulips in it, sitting on a square mirror with petals dropped around it and maybe some smaller mason jars with tealights in them be enough on the table?  Are you catching what I’m throwing?  I was thinking for the lighted masons we could just tie ribbons around the rim to pull together the color theme. 

 

If any of you ladies out there would like to help me with this please feel free to give me a call and force me to go do wedding stuff.  Because frankly I’m getting to the point where I’m having a hard time motivating myself because I think it’s all completely stupid.  I can’t believe we do things like this when there are starving children in the world.  It makes me a little sick to my stomach to think about it.

 

Lampstands August 1, 2008

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Last night in Gilbert’s class we talked about the letter to the church at Ephesus in Revelation chapter 2.  This lead to a discussion about how the church at Ephesus had probably gotten so caught up in identifying false teachers that it was missing out on the whole loving people thing.  They forgot that they were supposed to be showing people Christ through their faith and their works and how those two things are not mutually exclusive. 

 

This made me think about churches that “die off.”  The people get old, and literally die off, because they haven’t brought anyone to Christ to keep the congregation flourishing.  In my experience when this happens many times the scripture “wide is the path that leads to destruction” is quoted and taken completely out of context.  “Well, it’s not that we weren’t going out and trying to make disciples of all nations, it’s just that no one wanted to listen to the good news we had to share” 

 

While we are to expect that to be the case on occasion (not everyone is going to obey the gospel) I am wondering now if what has happened in many of these congregations is not that they haven’t tried, but perhaps they left the love out of their efforts as it seems Ephesus may have done.  And sometimes are so downright angry about their faith that the “good news” doesn’t sound so good at all.  Christ says at the end of the letter that he would remove the lamp stand if they didn’t go back to their first love and way of doing things…perhaps that is what is happened to these congregations.  I think sometimes we take the written word of God to the world but forget to take the actual Word of God to the world.  Does this make sense?

 

I feel compelled to share this… July 21, 2008

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Purity